Even though I purchased MediaMonkey a couple of years ago, I never did get it to work the way I like.
Now I'm trying to see if I can be a little more patient and get it done this time

It took me quite some time to get my iTunes to work right the way I like it, and now that I'm trying to abandon it, I'd like to have the same functionality from MediaMonkey and wean myself from the Apple tit.
I like seeing my albums as I would on my shelf:
1. Sorted alphabetically by album artist (e.g. McCartney, Paul, not "Paul McCartney"), but displaying the name as normal (i.e. Paul McCartney) This is why the iTunes feature of having "album artist" and "album artist sort by" is really helpful.
2. Album (chronologically, by year of release)
Beyond that,
- by disc number (e.g. Pink Floyd's The Wall by disc number)
- by track number as it appears on the album
All of that also needs to work in the same manner when I sync to iPhone, iPod, etc...
Can someone please send me down the correct rabbit hole so I can achive this on MediaMonkey?
I'd really appreciate it; thanks!